生活太累，多晒太阳。
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Worship of self. They’re the kind of worship you just gradually slip into, day after day, getting more and more selective about what you see and how you measure value without ever being fully aware that that’s what you’re doing. See your blinders.
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We should not use imagination to trick ourselves into thinking we know any thing about our blind spots. Just assuming something has happened because we don’t have evidence against it is a trap we should avoid.
Kurzgesagt
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To exist is called finnas till (in Swedish). So actually, to be really alive, to really exist, you have to find things.
Home S2
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Lieben und arbeiten. (To love and to work.)
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The whole trick is keeping the truth up front in daily consciousness.
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To be at ease with yourself.
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If you are looking forward, you’re looking in the wrong direction.
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The search for meaning, much like the search for pleasure, must be conducted obliquely. Meaning ensues from meaningful activity: the more we deliberately pursue it, the less likely we are to find it; the rational questions one can pose about meaning will always outlast the answers. In therapy, as in life, meaningfulness is a byproduct of engagement and commitment, and that is where therapists must direct their effort - not that engagement provides the rational answer to questions of meanings, but it causes these questions not to matter.
Irvin Yalom
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Beware the powerful exclusive attachment to another; it is not, as people sometimes think, evidence of the purity of the love. Such encapsulated, exclusive love - feeding on itself, neither giving to nor caring about others-is destined to cave in on itself. Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love.
Irvin Yalom
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Have you ever questioned the nature of your reality?